A systemic/psychodynamic approach to domestic violence/abuse in couple counselling: the safety plan.
As gay men we have different rules to our lives, so we also have different rules to our relationships. The book 'Couple Therapy with Gay Men' offers knowledge & insight into the distinct aspects of intimate gay male relationships and working with them in dyadic circular/systemic therapy.
How does a systemic couple counsellor ask questions of a relationship? Making interventions of individuals ("how do you feel about that?") doesn't actually address the relationship itself.